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You're Preparing for a Life You'll Never Live

You're Preparing for a Life You'll Never Live

You're so afraid of wasting your life that you've forgotten to live it.

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Jul 25, 2025
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You're so afraid of wasting your life that you've forgotten to live it.

Three years ago, you said you'd be happy when you hit $100K. Then it was $200K. Then $500K. Now you're making more money than your parents ever dreamed of, and you're still not living the life you promised yourself you'd live when you "made it."

The goalpost keeps moving, and you keep chasing it, convinced that the next milestone will finally give you permission to stop optimizing and start living.

But let’s be real for a second. Those goalposts aren’t moving themselves. You’re moving them

Every achievement creates a new problem. Every level unlocked reveals ten more levels. Every financial milestone gets swallowed by lifestyle inflation and the discovery of people who have even more.

You've become a world-class life manager and an amateur human being.

The cruel irony? In your desperate attempt to avoid mediocrity, you've created something worse: absence.

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