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What lands here isn’t the Newport quote, it’s the quiet insult hidden in it: if you haven’t earned leverage, your “passion” is just a mood. The older I get, the more I trust what the hands know. In a kitchen, you can feel the difference between romance and craft by how a blade moves through an onion. In an OR, you learn fast that meaning isn’t a feeling - it’s consequence. Competence is the only language reality speaks.

Your “Value Stack” reads like body wisdom: friction → skill → agency → meaning. Most people try to jump straight to meaning and wonder why they’re anxious. They’re chasing a neurochemical high without the scar tissue that makes it stick. The work that matters is usually 80% unsexy: repetition, revisions, boring problems solved cleanly. The 20% that feels like purpose only shows up because the 80% was done without applause.

Where I’d push this further: excellence isn’t just a career strategy, it’s a moral stance. “Be so good they can’t ignore you” becomes “be so reliable reality can trust you.” That’s heavier than passion; it survives bad days, low dopamine, and silence.

One question for your readers: if you stripped the slogans and removed the audience, what skill would you still practice in an empty room for the next two years, because the craft itself makes you more useful, more dangerous, more alive?

Start there. The meaning will find you.

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7 pillars's avatar

This reframing of meaningful work is powerful; and honestly, a bit of a wake-up call. The idea that passion follows mastery, not the other way around, challenges so much of what we’re taught about career fulfillment.

I appreciate how you broke down the neuroscience behind it too. It’s not just philosophy, it’s biology. The “craftsman mindset” feels like a more grounded, sustainable path, especially in a world obsessed with instant gratification.

Thank you for articulating this with such clarity and depth.

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